Two junkies are waaaay worse than one.
Today’s Coaching Log has changed four times already.
I had a planned topic on my master outline: the 10 second hip drive drill for the bench press; but time is of the essence today, so I came up with another idea. No time to shoot photos for it.
So, I chose: Extra Volume: Use your bodyweight to get jacked.
Again, no time to shoot pictures.
And then came: The Agility Ladder Sucks.
But, it is now none of those because I am as mad as a three-legged dog trying to bury a turd on an icy pond (as Spud might say), so you are going to read my rant.
- I hate junkies.
- Seriously.
- Hate them.
They bring famine, misery and pestilence wherever they go.
They destroy.
And it is all by choice, and fully supported by enabling people and the government.
Yeah, I said it’s a choice.
I grew up in a town full of junkies, it’s actually famous for it.
A shitload of the kids I grew up and was friends with, are dead or in the can because of drugs, and a lot of them came from really good families. Poor families, but good families.
You know why I am not a junkie?
Because I made a conscious choice to NOT stick a needle in my arm, or swallow a handful of goofballs.
They made the choice.
And if you think the government doesn’t’ support junkies and want them on drugs you might be high.
Anyway, I don’t want to get political, because this has nothing to do with politics. It has to do with quality of life.
Did I say I hate junkies?
TPS isn’t in the best neighborhood in the world, we are in an industrial zone. This is normally a place where you wouldn’t see a bunch of junkies, but I see them all the time.
Yeah, I can spot them after 21 years of dealing with them professionally and growing up where I did, a lot of you may miss them. If you know what to look for, they are easy to spot. Sometimes they are in your face.
So, the Welfare office is right next door to the gym. I have nothing against welfare.
I grew up on it in the projects.
- Government cheese and powdered milk.
- Roaches scattering when you turned on the light.
- Open the silverware drawer too fast, the roaches run right up your arm.
Yup. This happened.
The difference with me is that it was embarrassing to be on welfare when I was a kid in the early 1970’s. People tried to get off of it.
I remember getting dragged to the Kent School (my school) once a month kicking and screaming that I didn’t want to go because the other kids would know we were on welfare.
The other kids were just as embarrassed.
Note to Murph: we all were on welfare in the projects.
You see, welfare was a temporary support system to help people get back on their feet. That’s good.
My mother was on it until she could find a job. When she did, we got off.
That’s the idea.
Junkies don’t do this.
They stay on it like a career.
They treat it like an art form.
If they worked 5% as hard at getting off heroin or Oxy or Fentanyl and getting a job, as they do at being junkies and getting free money, they might be millionaires.
Anyway, TPS is right next to the welfare office or whatever politically correct name it has this week.
It’s where they go to get their SSI, SSDI, Food Stamps and 400 other types of aid from the government (and taxpayers).
Before you boycott EliteFTS and send me hate mail, re-read what I said above, I am not against welfare. We need it for those who must have it.
It should not be for junkies.
You should have to pass a drug test to get benefits.
At least in my opinion.
Anyway, I was eating at my usual spot and here it where my rant begins:
I went in to my usual table, cleaned it with a Lysol wipe (I’m a germ-o-phobe), I laid my keys, eyeglass case, sunglasses and phone on the table, and put my hat on a chair (you take your hat off when you go indoors right?).
I walked over to the counter and was going to order, but as usual, the guy who works there just looked at me and nodded his head. He knows the drill, steak tips and carrots.
I turned around and Junkie #1 was leaning on my table knocking my stuff around.
And there was nothing I could do about it.
Why?
Because Junkie #1 was a female about 50-60 years old.
(How can you be so sure she was a junkie? Isn’t that old for a junkie?)
She then looked at me, let an exasperated sigh and said in her gravelly junkie voice, “Oh excuse me, I didn’t know you were sitting here”.
Fucking really?
You didn’t see all the stuff on the table or see me wipe the table down and now it has your filthy junkie paw prints all over it?
(Junkies don’t have hands, they have paw like appendages. Don’t believe me, take a look next time you see one.)
No, I didn’t say that. It would have turned into a huge thing with me looking like the bad guy.
I just gave her “the look” (it’s involuntary at this point) and she gave me the “I can’t believe you didn’t say something nice back to me” look. She was actually mad at me because she leaned on my table, pushed my stuff, that I paid for with money from working, and I didn’t tell her it was ok.
It’s not ok.
So now I am getting furious because her and Junkie #2 are walking around, bumping into tables, people, and generally making everyone else in the joint uncomfortable.
Another thing I can’t stand is people talking loudly on their phones in restaurants, it’s just ignorant.
You are not that important and we don’t want to listen to your conversation.
Junkie #2 was LOUDLY talking about the following incredibly interesting points:
- She has been on SSI and SSDI and 40 other forms of aid for over 20 years
- She can’t believe that she has to fill out a different form to get her check, or debit card or cash. (They get all of those in Massachusetts)
- It’s not fair that she has to do that
- No, you don’t want to come see me, I’ve gained a lot of weight since the last time you saw me (contrary to popular belief, there are fat junkies.)
- She is going to the public hospital in Boston to see a nutritionist so she can get free drugs to make her lose weight
- Is her sub ready yet?
"Hey, Junkie #1, make sure you get me a few Pepsi’s to go with my sub".
Are you noting the irony of the Pepsi and sub while going to see the nutritionist for drugs to lose weight?
Here's a novel idea, stop eating subs and slamming a 2 liter Pepsi after you shoot your wake up bag.
This was about 3 feet from me and you could have heard them in the parking lot outside.
Meanwhile, me and everyone else there were just trying to eat lunch and GET BACK TO WORK.
I sat there and tried not to have a stroke I was so aggravated that I had to put up with this bullshit, and so did everyone around me.
I got more than one look from the other diners who clearly felt the same way.
There was nothing I could do about it.
Say something, I’m the asshole.
Make eye contact one too many times, I’m the asshole.
I could just imagine the “wat are yooooooo lookin at” in the junkie drawl coming at me.
I tried to eat as fast as I could, because I knew that I wasn’t going to be able to hold my temper for too long, especially with all the yelling from them and the bumping into stuff with their junkie shuffle.
Surprisingly, they got their stuff and left just before I was done allowing me to eat the last few bites in peace.
I’ve dealt with junkies all my life personally and professionally.
I’ve seen them destroy everyone and everything in their families personally.
In my professional dealings, I saw the worst of the worst.
- Junkies are manipulative.
- They are sneaky.
- They are always plotting.
- They are cunning.
- They are smart.
- Not book smart.
- Junkie smart.
- They know how to game the system and get money, medical care, health care all for free.
- They are professional victims.
- I hate junkies.
I don’t really know where I am going with this article, I just needed to get it off my chest.
But, it’s a huge problem for me to hear someone bragging about how they have been getting free money and health care for 20 years and they are pissed that they now have to fill out a new form to continue.
I’m sorry, is it too much to ask that you fill out a piece of paper to get thousands of dollars a month for nothing and that you give nothing back to society in return?
It’s a huge problem that I have to go out in public and tolerate ignorant, rude behavior by an entitled class of people. Junkies, at least in my experience which is fairly vast, feel that everything is owed to them.
Nothing is owed to any of us except the expectation of common decency.
That’s not too much to ask.
You’ll not get that from a junkie. (Said in the Irish).
If there is something going on in your life and you think taking a few pills will make it better; DON’T.
It will not.
If you get injured at work and they give you Oxy, just don’t take it.
I can’t tell you how many people I know personally that have thrown away their careers and families from this exact scenario.
Drugs make everything worse.
OK.
I’m done.
Next week, I’ll be back to training.
Oh, one more thing, good luck to TeamTPS next week and all the lifters from TPS.
We’ve got about 25 people lifting at the RPS New Hampshire/Vermont State Championships on the 8th and 9th.
Oh, and Happy Birthday to the greatest guitar player ever, Eric Clapton.
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Vincere vel mori
Thanks for your intelligent comment.
sooooo...all the junkies out there...do something great for the world and go kill your selves.
https://www.facebook.com/HuffPostPolitics/videos/10153519228277911/
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My first draft was close to 1300 words, so it's taken me time to trim this up to be a Facebook post.
Elitefts is the only strength site I know of that has an article category for Special Needs. While most the articles published are about Autism, there are also articles on Suicide, Addiction, Depression, PTSD, and others. Autism is much easier to write about as the others are "taboo" for those who have real world experience to write - or they simply don't want to. We publish over 700 articles per year and have been doing so for well over a decade. There are 7859 articles live on the site (We deleted thousands of others with the site migration a few years ago). All of these run through our editorial staff from vetting > concept > check > edit > format > publish. It can take up to 6 weeks for some articles to publish.
We also have Blogs/Logs. I can only guess at how many of these there are, around 500/ month for the past 15 years. With the QA elitefts publishes close to 2000 pages of content per month. We do not vet, curate, edit or publish the content you read in the Blogs/Logs or Q&A nor do we ever intend to. These were designed to be unedited, unfiltered, streams of information direct from our coaches and athletes to the site. The opinions in these posts may not and many times do not align with those of elitefts - nor do we want them to. With this comes risks that we are willing to take so we do not become a site where everyone shares the same views as I feel this doesn't expand the learning experience but lessons it.
With this said, we need to do a better job and come up with a solution to denote what is a log post and what is an article. The URL and Breadcrumbs are not enough, and I feel we can come up with a solution to this. While this isn't the issue at hand, it is a matter I didn't notice until now.
I can't speak for others when it comes to addiction but can for myself. I am very close to this, as are 1 out of 3 Americans, It will be an issue that everyone in America will be close too soon as it's not getting better but worse. Ohio is one of the leading States for Drug Overdoes. A couple of weeks ago Stark County had to bring in a mobile morgue to store the overflow of bodies, and in February two parents were arrested after their eight-year-old son overdosed on Heroin. They found prescription pills and heroin in the kid's sock. Stew on that one for awhile. Now, factor in the overcrowding of rehab centers and insane wait lists for those who do seek help.
This is a problem that won't be fixed online. An issue that doesn't have a left or right side but just one huge mass of gray area.
At this point, in my opinion, all opinions matter because it gets people talking about it. If an Blog post is seen as "wrong" and people bitch that is better than not talking at all.
Very simple case in point. The word "choice" is perhaps the evilest word to those who are dealing deep with this issue. I can write all I want about how it's not their "choice, " and it will always fall on deaf ears. Deaf ears of everyone until they see it for themselves, they witness the battle of someone close to them - or even themselves. I used to be one who would say "it's their choice" and strongly believed that. When this shit hits close to home enough times, and you see the process or lack of process and your perception changes. We are not going to modify this judgment with someone online - ever. Families who deal with this will tell you it takes years before other family members begin to understand.
So I won't fault someone for their opinion if it opens the door for others to voice their own. Some of us are too close, some too far away and others who have no clue.
- Dave Tate Founder Elitefts.com Inc
Thanks for the support.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
I have mine on
what happened to me that day at lunch
what has happened to me over the years dealing with this population (EG: breaking in my house for example and stealing things that were family heirlooms from my grandfather-and if you know me, you know how important he was, or stealing all of my tools from my truck, or overdosing in front of my business, or house and so many more things )
what has happend with friends and colleagues losing family and careers
what has happened to me with the death of friends
as well as 21 years of dealing with this population professionally (probably safe to say that those who commented in favor of them do not have any clue about the experiences I have had here)
Those who now hate me have the right to their opinion too.
Some comments I saw said I have no idea about what these people go through.
How do they know that?
Do they know me and every experience I have had in my life?
I don't think so; so how can they make such a statement about ME or what I know?
Another comment said something about the "likes of me".
I am pretty ok with "the likes of me" and those who know me will most likely agree.
Or not.
What, becasue I don't like people as described I am now some kind of monster, or moron?
Because I don't agree with you I am stupid?
I could say the same about you, but choose not to.
As I have already said, I belive you have the right to your opinion even if I disagree.
That is what makes this country great. Free speech and the right to have/express your opinion.
Even if I don't like it.
Someone once said about me: "Murph ain't for everyone."
That is a true statement.
I wasn't going to post it after I wrote it over the concern for the possible backlash, but in today's society, people are more divided and less open to discussion than as far back as I can remember.
Possibly ever.
They are also less likely to tolerate someone who does not agree with them.
That's too bad.
We can all have different opinions and still have commonalities.
I don't really go on FB but I did look at a few profiles of those speaking bad of me and saw some pretty disturbing stuff to me there.
I didn't say what I thought of them.
It could have trigered them.
It's also funny that people commented on the irony of my Clapton statement.
Didja ever think that the irony was intentional?
The log was never intended to light up so much backlash and hatred.
It was simply a rant on something I am tired of dealing with almost daily.
I'll continue to do as Cliff said "You be you".
If you hate me for it, that's ok.
I won't hate you back.
I don't have time for that.
I'd love for those who hate me now to continue reading my logs becuase even if we disagree on this subject, we agree on strength.
Vince vel Mori
Murph (C.J. Murphy), elitefts Coach 2 days ago
I am dealing with it in my family. I have heard: "their battling addiction and it's a disease"...in the mean time the junkie is given money, steals everything that's not nailed down. Steals from family members that try to help them. They have very selfish behavior and expect everyone to "help" them. They refuse help and once help is obtained they get "clean" for a couple of months and fall right back in to their old ways. Refer to my post above.
During their "clean" period; their brains are so fried from abuse that they are basically useless as a human and can only perform the basic adult functions. Lay around and watch TV and light housework.
I am not talking about folks (Gods special little people) that are born with some sort of handicap and need help. I am not talking about folks that want to put a buzz on, I understand that. I am talking about the thieving, selfish, useless junkies that could give 2 shits about anyone but their selves...because "their battling addiction and it's a disease"
v/r
Donald
I am done trying to be nice to these people, how do you think us sober people feel when we're just trying to live peaceful lives when these disgusting monsters are all over the place practically trying to destroy the world? They are less than animals, calling them animals would be an insult to the animal kingdom.
I hate meth, heroin, fentanyl, etc and want the people selling them put down.